{"id":4005,"date":"2026-01-16T08:00:43","date_gmt":"2026-01-16T15:00:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/catbradley.io\/?p=4005"},"modified":"2026-01-16T08:00:43","modified_gmt":"2026-01-16T15:00:43","slug":"majority-of-japanese-women-in-survey-regret-marrying-their-husband-but-thats-only-half-the-story","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/catbradley.io\/?p=4005","title":{"rendered":"Majority of Japanese women in survey regret marrying their husband, but that\u2019s only half the story"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-724597\" src=\"https:\/\/soranews24.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/01\/ms-1.jpg?w=640\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"478\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span><strong>Questionnaire\u2019s source raises some questions of its own<\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s a perception, bordering on a stereotype, that Japan has lost a lot of its interest in romance. Fewer people are getting married, those that do are getting married later, and <a href=\"https:\/\/soranews24.com\/2025\/01\/16\/young-japanese-adults-show-lowest-dating-experience-level-yet-in-annual-survey\/\">young adults are dating less<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>So<strong> a survey of married Japanese women in which the majority say that they regret marring their husbands<\/strong> has been met with a certain amount of grim smugness online, seen as yet another sign either that Japan thinks romantic relationships aren\u2019t worth the trouble because there\u2019s a high chance that you\u2019ll end up with someone you don\u2019t like, or, if you\u2019re the other half of that couple, that you\u2019ll end up with someone who doesn\u2019t appreciate you.<\/p>\n<p>The survey, performed by the company <strong>Presia<\/strong> (we\u2019ll get back to them a little later), asked 287 married Japanese women, between the ages of 20 and 59, how they feel about their spouse, and <strong>70 percent of them said that they have regretted marrying their husband<\/strong>. Some of those regrets are pretty strong, too, as <strong>54 percent of the women also said that, if they could go back in time and start all over again, they would not want to marry their current husband again<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-724600\" src=\"https:\/\/soranews24.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/01\/ms-2.jpg?w=640\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"480\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When asked what sort of regrets they had, economic issues were at the top of the list, with <strong>22.6 percent of the women saying that they regretted compromising on their desired income for their husband to make and another 14.6 percent regretting not having stricter standards regarding his financial sensibilities<\/strong>. A lack of willingness to do housework, or simply not doing it well, was third on the list of regrets, chosen by 11.1 percent of the respondents. <strong>Meanwhile, the top response for what the women didn\u2019t regret lowering their standards for was their husband\u2019s physical appearance, selected by 36.6 percent<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>So to summarize, the women in the survey largely regret getting married and don\u2019t really care if they like looking at their husbands, especially if they were making more money. That\u2019s a pretty clear picture that romance, if not dead, is at least badly injured, right? Not necessarily. Aside from the survey\u2019s small sample size, remember earlier when we said it was performed by a company called Presia? <strong>Presia is a matchmaking service<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Specifically, Presia is an online portal for people looking to get married in the near future, with advice columns and introductions to matchmaking offices. While Presia has released the results of the survey, <strong>they haven\u2019t said how the participants were selected<\/strong>. If the respondent pool was gathered from married women who were visitors to Presia\u2019s website or followers of its social media channels, that would significantly skew the numbers toward \u201cI regret marrying my husband,\u201d since people who <em>are<\/em> satisfied with their spouse are less likely to frequent online spaces with a focus on finding a new romantic partner.<\/p>\n<p>\u25bc Odds are this woman isn\u2019t browsing singles sites because she\u2019s looking for an \u201ceven better\u201d husband.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-724602\" src=\"https:\/\/soranews24.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2026\/01\/ms-3.jpg?w=640\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" \/><\/p>\n<p>With that in mind, the most telling part of the results isn\u2019t necessarily how many of the participants regret marrying their husband, but that among those who do regret their choice of spouse, monetary issues are what really have them feeling like they made the wrong call. Even that, though, doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that Japanese wives are only concerned with their husbands\u2019 bank accounts, and not their hearts. It could just mean that for those who ended up in a marriage that\u2019s unhappy for a variety of reasons, not even having the saving grace of comfortable finances is a concrete complaint that sticks in their minds.<\/p>\n<p><em>Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/prtimes.jp\/main\/html\/rd\/p\/000000020.000170690.html\">PR Times<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/itainews.com\/archives\/2057669.html\">Itai News<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/news.yahoo.co.jp\/articles\/49f30a588199f05c0b8f40718d33fea23d185d4e\">Yahoo! Japan News<\/a><\/em><br \/>\n<em>Top image: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pakutaso.com\/20230425114post-45616.html\">Pakutaso<\/a><\/em><br \/>\n<em>Insert images: Pakutaso (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.pakutaso.com\/20220142019post-37758.html\">1<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pakutaso.com\/20160846242post-8859.html\">2<\/a>)<\/em><br \/>\n<em>\u25cf Want to hear about SoraNews24\u2019s latest articles as soon as they\u2019re published? <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/RocketNews24En\">Follow us on Facebook<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/RocketNews24En\">Twitter<\/a>!<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Questionnaire\u2019s source raises some questions of its own. There\u2019s a perception, bordering on a stereotype, that Japan has lost a lot of its interest in romance. Fewer people are getting&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"rop_custom_images_group":[],"rop_custom_messages_group":[],"rop_publish_now":"initial","rop_publish_now_accounts":[],"rop_publish_now_history":[],"rop_publish_now_status":"pending","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4005","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-rss"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/catbradley.io\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4005","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/catbradley.io\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/catbradley.io\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catbradley.io\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catbradley.io\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4005"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/catbradley.io\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4005\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/catbradley.io\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4005"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catbradley.io\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4005"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/catbradley.io\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4005"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}